Wednesday, December 18, 2013

Family Pictures

Emma Bowler - Born April 22nd 2013



Emma's Blessing - June 2013




Daddy's Girl

Packard Boys (Missing older brother Nathan and his two boys Owen and Tanner)
They have a "tradition" to take a picture when they are trying to pinch each other's bottoms to get each other to smile.

Packard Girls (Missing sister-in-law Telisha and her daughter Sidney)

Grandparents (Packards, Grandma Bowler, Granny Cayton, Grandpa Cayton)
Makemson Family (Makelers)

Bowler Family

My siblings (missing one older brother Nathan)
The night Austin and I got Engaged - Jan. 8th 2012
ROTC Military Ball: The night I fell in love with Austin - Dec. 9th 2011 



Records Retention Transcription of Papa's Tapes

Hey It’s Me
An Autobiography By Richard Webb
August 5th 1979
A lot of great things happened in the 20th century. Oh in the first decade of the 20th century Marconi was fooling around with a large radio. In the second decade of the 20th century, such people as Charles Limburg were fooling around with airplanes and he finally took a little trip that got him some notoriety when he landed in Paris. Milo Farnsworth was fooling around with television and he finally got this little thing perfected. While all of these earth shattering event were going on there was another thing that took place in East Midvale, Utah. On the 8th of October, 1925 a son was born to Florence Wilding Emery and George Francis Webb. Being the 5th child of this family, he was always referred to from then on as his mother’s “baby”. This pleased a lot of the grandchildren on occasion when they would be called “baby” and then their grandmother would say “Well here’s my baby” and I might have been 25 or 30 or some such age.
We lived in East Midvale for a year and then my family moved to Sandy and I was raised in Sandy. All my growing up years were done in Sandy. I was there, and it was reported, that I just took my first step while the family was making the move while I was a year old. I don’t remember that but I always figured it was on pretty good authority that at least I took my first step when I was a year old. We lived on a little 5 acre plot there in Sandy. So I had the benefit of having a lot of yard and barn yard to play in, run around, and wasn’t confined like some more youngsters are today in a sub division where you have to keep pretty close track and say “Hey, don’t get on the street. Don’t play in the street.” Perhaps my mother’s worry was if you wondered too far away and played on the canal bank and tumble in, it was a different worry. My first recollections, as I was growing up, I don’t remember how old I was, but I remember my older brothers particularly who were not always at home, they were away. One of the earlier recollections I have is that they were participating in the CCC project with the Federal Government and they spent some time in the CCC camps in the southern part of the state.  I remember on one occasion, one of my brothers came home and was telling about some of the “city slickers” that were in the CCC and the particular group that he was with, a lot of the fellows were from Brooklyn. He said they had considerable fun, showing some southern Utah cattle to some of these Easterners and telling them that they were the deer. The first time they had ever seen, I suppose, four legged creatures in the wild and they did, they believed that these cattle were some of the deer that were on the mountain. Maybe this is one of the reasons so many cattle get shot during the deer hunt is because these kinds of stories have been related to unknowing hunters, then they go out and shoot the wrong thing.
One of the recollections I have is one of my brothers went to school in Oregon and he was gone for several years of course, but I remember getting letters from him. I don’t remember the exact date but I can remember on that my birthday I would get letters from him and each year in that envelope was a 25 cent piece. And that went on for years, that annual letter, and I can remember the one year that the letter came, and there was no 25 cent piece in there. Oh, I was pretty close to teenage by this time. And I’ve never told my brother this yet, he is going to hear this tape and so he’ll get to found out that I really had some disappointment that year that I opened that letter. I appreciated the letter of course, but for some reason that quarter, he didn’t put in a quarter, and I was just a little bit disappointed that there was no quarter.
Well being the youngest in the family I suppose I was like all other younger children, the favorite of the parents, you know, being spoiled. I really don’t think this because my parents, I think, loved all of their children equally well. But I can remember going to school in Sandy, attending the Sandy Elementary School and participating in the activities there in the grade school, then later on in the Junior High School in Sandy. I remember the first fight I ever got in. I don’t know if it was the first fight or not, but it is the first fight I can remember. There was another fellow in the neighborhood; he was a little bit bigger than I was. I don’t even know why we were fighting now, except I do remember this; he blacked my eye, but I sent him home crying. So, I always felt it was worth a black eye to send somebody packing down the trail. He was bigger than I was, so I thought that was pretty good. That reminds me of another story about a nephew of mine. On one occasion his grandfather asked him “Who was the smartest kid in class”. He said “Hebert is the smartest, but I’m the toughest.” So maybe being tough is good, and maybe it isn’t so good. I don’t know about this, but that is just one of those things that happened.
Well, as I was in the junior high, one of the activities we participated in, of course was the Boy Scout Movement. We, as a family, received some publicity in scouting. All of my older brothers had achieved the rank of Eagle, as had my father before them achieved the rank of Eagle. So one of the aims and goals, I think my father had more than I did, was that I earn the rank of Eagle in Scouting. Consequently I did earn the rank of Eagle and we did make the headlines in the local paper. You have to realize this was back in 1939 or 40, long in there some place. Here was a family now who had five Eagle Scouts in the family; a father and four sons. And this was quite an achievement at the time, in fact it would still be quite an achievement, but we were rather proud of this fact that we had all achieved the rank of Eagle Scout. Incidentally I enjoyed thoroughly the scouting program. I can remember spending several summers, three different summers, at camp Steiner, which is still one of the Scout camps in the “UN” mountains. In fact I can remember one particular time at scout camp. We thought we had a pretty good softball team, you know how boys are at that age, so we issued the challenge to any and everybody at Camp Steiner, we’d take them on in a baseball game if they were silly enough to want to come and play us. We were expert enough to win most of the games we played, so we were of course egotistical and thought this was pretty good. On one occasion we were playing a game at the ball diamond at Camp Steiner, and you have to realize that Camp Steiner, being in the mountains you didn’t have twenty-seven acres of flat ground on which to build a ball diamond, and the ball diamond was built on one small meadow. In order to build the ball diamond they had to move several large boulders. We were playing on this one occasion, I happened to be pitching, pitching to this fellow and he got lucky and he got a foul ball and the ball went up. The fellow who was catching, one of my good friends, ran over to catch the ball and just as he got to where the ball was, he fell in a hole where a boulder had been removed. He disappeared from sight, it was this deep of a hole. And a few seconds later he comes staggering out, holding up the ball to indicate he had caught the ball. Of course I thought was pretty good, here was my catcher and he was a really good catcher, and so we had a really good time.
Another time when I was in Scouting, we were at the Tracy Wigwam, and at that time the Tracy Wigwam there was a ball diamond where the lake is now. The camp staff thought they were pretty good at this ball business, and we thought we were pretty good, I’m sure we thought we had a pretty good team. So we challenged the camp staff to a ball game, and the nature of that ball field was if you hit on in the left field, a little pop fly would land up in a tree and would turn out to be somewhat of a cheap double hit or at least an extra base hit. Once again I was pitching and I remember one of the camp staff, who was one of the adults, the first time at bat he hit one. He not only hit it into the tree of course he gave it a good go and it went up into the side hill. Before it rolled back down to level ground again he’d already circuited the bases for a home run. That was a little deflating to us, at this time the camp staff was ahead of us. Finally during the course of the ball game we had approached them and finally had scored some runs and we were ahead. We came to bat for the last time and they got us out and they happened to have the last inning. We were still leading and they got a man on base, and who should be coming to bat but this same one of the camp staff who hit that tremendous hit the time before. Well I was bound and determined that he wasn’t going to hit. Through a little, probably through more good luck than good management, I was able to strike him out in three straight pitches. He really wasn’t a good sport because he displayed his displeasure through certain actions that he was struck out. Of course he intended to get another hit and they could win the ball game. Anyway, we won the ball game.
These were some of the growing up years. Along about this time in one of the Sunday school classes I was attending, I remember a Sunday school teacher asking the question: “What is the one personality characteristic that you would think of that would fit to your parents.” Of course this starting me thinking “well now, what one personality qualification would my mother have and what one personality qualification would my father have.” And I pondered this question for two or three weeks. Most of the other kids in the class had an answer the first day, but I didn’t give an answer that first day because I pondered this. Finally after thinking of this, now I’ve thought of this many, many times since, so I think it was a fair assessment, at least a partial assessment, of the personality of my mother and my father. One thing that impressed me greatly with my mother, in my growing up year, was her ability to get along with people, to make friends with people, and to associate with people and be very friendly with them. A quality and characteristic of my father that I thought was tremendous was his, I suppose you would say tenacity, in staying to the line of truth and righteousness: uncompromising with any idea or thought that did not follow the principle and tenants of the gospel. These I think are two characteristics of my parents, I ‘m sure my brothers and sister will agree with this, that these are two of the characteristics of my parents that would help describe their activities.
When I was in junior high school I participated in an athletic program that was sponsored by the Deseret News. The Deseret News Junior decathlon events were a lot more prominent in that day than they are now. They still sponsor these, but it was one of the major activities in our junior high in the spring time of the year. I can remember participating in this decathlon event. In fact I can remember qualifying in the school event and in the district events and participating in the Tri-State meet, which at that time, these meets were held at South High School. I was rather proud of these accomplishments and the first year I participated I took fifth place in the overall standing in the Tri-State meet. In the second year I took tenth place in the meet and then in the third year that I participated I took fifth place in this Tri-State decathlon meet. It kind of builds my ego to think that I was successful in that kind of thing.
Well as we grew up in the area, of course we did those things which all young people did. We participated in the activities of the community and the activities of the ward. We participated in Sunday school classes and mutual classes and scout troop. Then of course one of our highlights was when we finally registered in high school and we participated in the activities of the high school. Some of my friends were athletically inclined and they participated in athletics: football, basketball and track. I was a little bit inclined along these lines and I participated in high school in the basketball and track program. In fact our senior year I was a member of the State Championship Mile Relay Team and I still have the gold medal that was awarded for medaling with the high school relay team. I always kid with my wife about this that it sure is funny that I could run so fast yet she could run a little faster because she could run fast enough to catch me. So, she doesn’t appreciate that when I say that but it’s true anyways.
Another one of my recollections of high school, one Sunday coming out of the Sunday school meeting, we heard the, I supposed tremendous news, I was thinking it was a traumatic news announcement, that the Japanese Navy had made an attack at Pearl Harbor. This was how I heard of the attack at Pearl Harbor, as I came out of the ward house there in Sandy. Somebody who lived there in the neighborhood who hadn’t gone to church had been listening to the radio and had received the notification of the attack. We were able to make a lot of jokes about this. To us who were then fairly close to the age who would be serving in the Armed Forces, I was a junior in high school at the time. You know it is easy for a sixteen year old kid to say “Well that’s great. Those crazy Japanese, we’ll take care of them in a short order.” Filled with patriotism and all sorts of things.  In the weeks following this announcement in December I remember that several of the fellow in the high school, withdrew from school and joined the Armed Forces. More of those were seniors but there were some that were in the junior class who stretched the point of their age to the extent that they didn’t tell the full truth to the recruiters and they put a year or two on their age so they would be accepted into the Navy or the Army. They were off, the first of my friends were off to the wars, as a heroic thing, you know. I’ve always maintained, anytime there was a threat of war, if we took everybody that was forty-five years of age and older and assigned them to the infantry, we would never have a war. Hopefully we would have been smart enough to figure out another way to do it. This is one of the paradoxes of our country, of any country. The statesman who are older make the decisions and the cream of the country, so to speak, physically speaking, mentally speaking, are swept up into the armies and sent out to be shot at and killed. I remember a lot of times getting notices, reading notices in the newspaper, of friends of mine who had met their demise in the activities of war.

Well I participated in high school, as I had said in the track team and I had participated on the basketball team for two years. Up until the time I was a senior in high school I hadn’t traveled very much. The only reason I traveled as far as I had was because I was a member of the basketball team and took some trips with the basketball team. Up until the time I was graduating from high school, I was 17, as far east as I had ever been was Camp Steiner in the “UN” mountains. As far north I had been was in Logan and as far south as I had been was Springville and as far west as I had been was Grantsville. I’m sure that most of your children today have traveled extensively, a lot farther than this, but this was the extent of my travels up until the time I had graduated from high school. Well I graduated from high school and immediately went to work for Kennecott Copper Corporation, and that in those days was Utah Copper. I had two brothers that were working up there and it seemed like a good place to go earn a little quick money. I didn’t mind it, I was going to go to school for a while before I reached that magic age of 18 when Uncle Sam would require my services in the Armed Services. So I went to work at Kennecott, and I worked there 3 weeks, and in the mean time I decided to go to school at the University and I registered at the University for summer school. So I quite Kennecott and went to school in the summer session, so I was in school that summer session and that following fall session and that winter quarter I registered again in the winter quarter. In the meantime I had turned 18 and I got one of those famous letters that we all got from Uncle Sam.  It started out saying “Greetings, you have been selected by your fellow citizens”, we used to joke about that a little bit, we were selected all right. Those of you who went through that know (21:55)

Pedigree Chart


Life Goals

1st: To learn how to love Austin, my husband, to the best of my abilities. To accomplish this I need to learn more about him everyday so I can know his needs, desires, and the way he feels truly loved. I also need to learn to continuously put myself and my wants behind and his in front and first.
         *Pay attention to the type of person he is
         *Notice and act on how he needs to hear things

2nd: To teach my children the joy and peace which comes from living the gospel of Jesus Christ and having a deep and personal relationship with their Heavenly Father.
         *Start at a young age with helping my children be familiar with Jesus and Heavenly Father
         *Teach by example
         *Don't wait to teach my children, start young.
         *Don't be afraid to have the "hard" or awkward talks.

The following is a Life Wish List I made when I was about 16 years old :

-Married in the Temple    (Check)
-LIVE my covenants
-Make a Snow Angel       (Check)                                   
-Kiss in the Rain              (Check)
-Caribbean Trip
-Go to Europe with Art Book and a Camera
-Learn how to Cut hair and make clothes
-Go to Martin's Cove
-Be in a Musical
-Horseback riding in the wild
-Perform "Chestnuts Roasting"
-Go Real Rock Climbing
- Make a Snow Man
-Learn to Actually Surf  (Check)
-Spend 2 months only giving prayers of gratitude: ask for nothing 
-Go Snow camping
-Get All A's in a semester in college (Check)
-Have a piece of Art work in my parents and all my siblings houses (Parent's house -Check Emily's house-Check)
-Live by Siera and Ellie and Sarah
-Successfully make a Souffle
-Serve a Mission with Husband
-Homemade Blanket for every Child
-Run a Half Marathon
-Spend a Thanksgiving at a Homeless Shelter
-Go Ice Fishing
-Kiss in the Snow    (Check)
-Sing in the Conference Center
-Snow fort
-See Phantom of the Opera and Les Miserable
-Make my Daughters' Prom dresses (Make them BEAUTIFUL)
-Go on a Sleigh Ride
-One Christmas: Give all presents away
-Be Happy Wherever I Am
-Fire Torch in my Kitchen
-Write a book
-Karaoke
-Go Ice skating on a Frozen Lake
-Someone write a Song for me
-Learn to Play Rachmaninoff
-Go to the Opera
-Read the Book of Mormon in 24 hours
-Have a big family
-Design and decorate MY Home
-ALL my sons serve full time and honorable missions
-Learn how to make Plum Tree Beef
-BE MY HUSBANDS EVERYTHING
-Have a HAPPY Home
-Have my kids

Ancestral Histories (Grandpa Packard and Papa Webb)

Heber Avon Packard (Paternal Grandpa)

Heber Avon, who went by Von all his life, was born to Ester Carter and Forrest LeRoy Packard on May 5th 1926 in Nampa, Idaho. One funny thing I learned was that he thought, and celebrated, his birthday in October all his life until he was in college and joined the Navy to go to Dental school. Grandpa was one of 17 children and multiple of his other siblings were also born in May, so his mother told a fib so she had one less birthday to worry about in May! Von was the 6th of 17 children and grew up on a farm. Him and his siblings were taught to work and play hard. During World War 2, Von’s father went to the Pacific Islands as a civilian construction worker to build air field for the allied forces, leaving Grandma Ester and all the children home to take care of the farm. Within a few days of the attack on Pearl Harbor, the island which Forrest was on was taken, making Grandpa Forrest a POW. The family did not know if he was alive or dead for the entire duration of the war. This left a large responsibility on Von’s shoulders to take care of his mother and the farm. He was one of the oldest boys which meant a large amount of manual labor. My favorite story my grandma told me was about their first date. Grandpa was in a choir at BYU and invited grandma to go with them to a competition. Grandpa had a magnificent voice and it capture her heart. That night she told her roommate that she was going to marry him, and a week later he proposed! The power of music! Grandpa continued to sing all his life, until his body no longer permitted him too. He was always a participant in his ward and stake choirs, and even had some quartet groups that won awards on multiple levels. My dad said that he loved grandpa’s voice so much that he had spent countless hours trying to make his voice have the same tone and sound as grandpa’s when he was a teenager.


Richard Emery Webb (Maternal Grandpa)
Richard was born to Florence Wilding Emery and George Francis Webb on October 8th 1925 in East Midvale, Utah. He was the last of five children (four boys and one girl). Richard grew up in the church and his parents taught him to be strong and faithful in the gospel. When Richard was older he was drafted into World War 2 and spent his service in France.

The family does not know much about his service, he never talked about it much, but the one thing everyone knows is that he did not like the French after his experience there. Apparently he was among the troops who were among the first to land in German occupied France, there to liberate the people. When their ship came into port though, they apparently did not receive any help with pulling in or anchoring their ship from the dock workers, because they were on strike. According to Papa (Richard), they had been on the ship for a long time but these workers refused to help these people who were there to liberate them. The only other thing we know about his experience in Europe is that he did enough to earn him very honorable medals, and his wife thinks she remembers one of them being a Purple Heart. According to my mother, Papa never talked about his military experience, and most of the family can understand why he did not. He was very young and was most likely exposed to horrific scenes of war which one would really rather forget. Almost immediately after his service in the war papa went on a mission to Oregon. At the time his mission consisted of the very northern parts of California and south rural Oregon. He served for two years, making his time away from his family over 6 years, but he served very honorably. It was even on his mission that he meant and even helped convert Nana (his wife).